.stop bullying mums.

Having a chat with my chum today about a very controversial topic and it really made me think about all the judgement and unwanted opinions us Mums cop on a daily basis. One of my chums good friends is Kayla Boyd; wife of Broncos player, Darius Boyd; a brand new Mum and victim of cyber bullying, BY OTHER MUMS.... Those ugly internet trolls had their fangs out because she left her precious new bundle of joy, with her own Mother; not a fucking drug addict, not a stranger; her OWN MOTHER! 

Not that it's really anyone else's business. 

WTF ??

I talk about the sisterhood a lot because I strongly believe in it. Aren't we supposed to help each other and lift each other up? Not beat each other when we are our most vulnerable... Being a Mum can be hard, especially if you have a high profile husband. If she missed the Grand Final to stay home with her baby, she probably would have been bullied for 'not supporting her husband'. It's pretty fucking ridic. 

I bet no one was brave enough to crawl out from under their troll bridges to say it to her face. 

Internet trolls, take notice.....

People and their opinions....

I mean, I love a good heated debate but not when people are just downright mean and treat people they've never met, like shit. And it's pretty shithouse that it's usually other Mums who are the biggest trolls. 

When are people going to get it through their heads - it is never okay to bully. Bullying is shithouse and I have never felt more bullied in my life than since becoming a mum. Most of it is cyber bullying, the lowest form; they don't even have the guts to say it to my face.

I've often heard people say 'if you're willing to put your life out there, on social media; you should be willing to cop some backlash'

Honestly, piss off. 

You should NEVER have to expect criticism just because you like to update your social media profiles. That's utter bullshit. Just because I update my profile picture, doesn't give anyone an invitation to rip me to shreds. This has to stop. I worry about the day I let my children get on Facebook. 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love and be loved in return - Moulin Rouge 

Peace and love to all

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